mommy, on accident

Hello again

2011-09-24T11:36:00.001-04:00

I’ve let this little blog of my parenting adventures go a bit. A lot has happened since I last left you. I started a full time job that’s pretty rad. I enjoy the job and I’m learning skills I can actually use to help support me and my children. I also adore the people I work with and the people I work for. I’ve made a bunch of new friends that are showing me what I’m missing from life. I got a

In my last post.....

2011-03-02T09:37:00.000-05:00

I mentioned i picked up a new band. for me that's like well HUGE anyway it's been years since i have worked with a band one on one. i'm so glad to be doing it again, but i could use some help from you guys! so you know that thing called facebook? WELL you should all go to facebook and like them! thats right go to facebook and like them! AND follow them on twitter! i know you all know how to do

Hello all

2011-02-22T12:27:00.000-05:00

My dearest readers I haven’t dropped of the face of the earth. In my last post I talked about job hunting. Well guess what, the job that I really really really wanted…. Well I got it! Plus I also took on a band. That’s right ladies and germs I got back into music. And I took up yoga because that 30 lbs of baby weight I’m still carrying around isn’t so hot when you’re 5 feet tall. Anyway I also

the lost arts of the previous generation

2011-01-11T05:20:00.000-05:00

Just one generation ago, us women were taught how to bake everything from scratch, darn socks, sew a whole wardrobe, clean with household goods, and cook anything you could imagine. I remember my grandmother sewing my whole bedroom set for me when I was little. She made everything from the curtains to the bed sheets. She even made her own clothes. I’d make pizza with her from scratch with jarred

music to dance to mondays: The blackout pact - we drink so you don't have to

2011-01-10T01:35:00.000-05:00

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2011-01-08T13:10:00.002-05:00

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kids in the workplace even if kids never step foot in the work place

2011-01-07T09:33:00.001-05:00

Explain to me why being a female and having kids is looked as a negative at a job interview? I have gone on several job interviews in the past few days (I’m going back to work so what can I say). And at every interview things seam to be going great UNTIL they asked me about my family or somehow my children get into it. Then whoever interviews me marks on my resume that I have 2 kids and then they

Since i really haven't been celebrating Cameron's monthly millstones.....

2011-01-03T11:10:00.000-05:00

I'd figure i'd share that at the ripe ol' age of 2 months and 3 weeks and change old Cameron randomly started to roll over (yesterday). I can't remember what age Aiden started to roll over all I know is that he defiantly didn't do it before 3 months old. Cameron did it like 7 or 8 times in a row so yay for him! And yesterday was Cameron's first non-sleepy day since his born. He was all smiles

Music to dance to mondays: Cobra Starship - Guilty Pleasure

2011-01-03T05:32:00.000-05:00

flash back friday: Dec. 31st, 2005

2010-12-31T10:19:00.001-05:00

"the last few days have been great as in how the last like 2/3 weeks have been great.... sooooo me and steph went to 2 hookah bars 2 days ago.... we went 2 this resturant then went 2 a lounge..... i enjoyed it much!!!! then yesterday i went 2 a show which was great.... i went w/ nora and her little sister.... aspen it is played.... i missed guns like girls but w/e i thought it was kinda rude when

wordless humpday

2010-12-28T18:23:00.000-05:00

the bedroom

2010-12-27T17:38:00.000-05:00

in the past i have mentioned the headaches we had moving into the new house.... well we still aren't all the way in and none of the rooms are @ 100% but the kids room is at about 45% so here is a look at how it's coming along the before the middle (look no dresser drawers for little hands to get stuck in and i still am working on this shared storage space!) coming soon...... THE AFTER

GO ADD ME ON TWITTER!

2010-12-19T12:05:00.000-05:00

CHA YEAH!

For the childless

2010-12-13T08:30:00.000-05:00

Sometimes I wonder why I was blessed with not one but 2 health kids. How was it me that was able to carry a full term baby and not know it and he be happy and healthy? How was it Cameron was born healthy too? I feel very blessed that they are both here with me but I can’t help but wonder why. Why am I blessed while people who try and want children badly don’t have them? See I never wanted kids

oh MY i have a TWITTER with a direction?

2010-12-12T18:09:00.000-05:00

So twitter is the only thing about new media i just don't get. I mean i don't get the point of having a twitter because a long long time ago i had a myspace. Then i had a myspace and a facebook because facebooks had statuses. So what would be the point of having a twitter and a facebook. I've been bother by this for the the almost 2 years i've had a twitter. So today i have deiced to start a

"they" ruled in our favor

2010-12-06T20:34:00.001-05:00

My heart goes out to the parents who have to fight the government to get help with the care of their child. It truly breaks my heart to see how the government never grants to people who are really in need. It hurts me to see people all around brag about how they get assistance, yet the mom who’s child was born at 26 weeks and has multiple struggles to face isn’t able to get a penny without a

Hand-me-downs

2010-12-04T15:51:00.002-05:00

***Note: Finally, this is the hand-me-down story that I keep saying that I am going to tell so here you go!*** First may I say I think there is nothing wrong with hand-me-down clothes. I think there is nothing wrong with it in the least. I am currently and will be handing down many of Aiden clothes to Cameron. I have accepted many hand-me-down clothes. Most kids usually wear something only

a MUCH needed update

2010-12-01T17:19:00.002-05:00

I figure while it’s pouring here in good ol’ Jersey I’d take a break from chasing my recycling around my backyard and soothing children who are woken up from naps by men installing siding. Anyway I have had a serious lack of updating on my part. A lot as actually gone down! My cousin Jackie has a baby boy on Tuesday of last week, named Zack! YAY! He came in at a health 8 lbs. Sadly Cameron

wordless hump day

2010-12-01T10:55:00.002-05:00

wordless humpday

2010-11-24T11:02:00.002-05:00

Not if, but when

2010-11-23T00:35:00.002-05:00

It’s become quite apparent, it’s no longer IF I will become a single mom, but when. See Alan and I don’t fight often, but when we do its bad. This weekend it was well, bad. Alan feels like I’m holding him hostage. I can see where he’s coming from. I feel like I take advantage of Alan when I go out and leave him alone with the kids, a lot. I’ve not held up my end of the bargain since Cameron’s

music to dance to (opps i mean mosh!) mondays : Number 12 looks like you

2010-11-22T12:30:00.001-05:00

"Cupcake, I hate to inform you of this, but you're bathroom is more scene than you!"

2010-11-19T14:04:00.000-05:00

In the past I have never talked about my home. I have just talked about my children, which is enough in my opinion. Well there’s a good point to why I kept things at my kids. See I lived in a home in which I hated. I hated that we didn’t have enough room. I hated that we lived on the 2nd floor. I hated the ugly white walls and the carpet everywhere. I just hated it! Anyway after Aiden

wordless humpday

2010-11-17T09:05:00.000-05:00

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2010-11-16T10:40:00.000-05:00

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music to dance to mondays: sugarcult - do it alone

2010-11-15T05:20:00.000-05:00

The D word

2010-11-11T01:26:00.000-05:00

See no one ever tells you, that it’s not when they’re a newborn that is the hardest. Now don’t get me wrong newborns are hard in their own right, but have you ever tried to sent down guidelines for a infant just becoming a toddler? You know the exact moment that you realize you need to set down some rules and figure out how you’re going to dole out punishments to your child. Mine moment was when

wordless humpday: i look like a zoo animal

2010-11-10T01:27:00.003-05:00

Camron's birth story in words

2010-11-09T01:02:00.002-05:00

After my first son’s birth I could understand why people are anti-hospital births. Hospital births can be very upsetting emotionally and very traumatizing. Yet hospital births were always my plan. After my first hospital birth, I defiantly was on the fence though. I was treated horribly and at more than one point I should have spoken up during my son and I stay. I didn’t I didn’t realize I could

Turning 24

2010-11-08T08:01:00.003-05:00

Today I turn 24. Yes, to you 24 may not be that old but 24 holds this thought of well SHIT I’M GETTING OLDER! See I went to school for music business. So when I was in high school I hung out with bands, who were quite older than me. They were all 22 or 23 never older. (Which actually in reality they were but I didn’t know it). I heard songs about be 23, song by blink 182 or Yellowcard for example

Music TO dance to mondays - houston calls - exit emergency

2010-11-08T05:25:00.002-05:00

this is a very rad song to post today because 7 years ago on this exact day we went to go see this band in east rutherford for my 17TH BIRTHDAY but the show ended up being sold out because senses fail played a surprise show man jersey has such a great music scene! or well did BUT happy 24th birthday to me (shit i'm getting old!)

flash back fridays: Nov. 11th, 2007 21st birthday part 2

2010-11-05T04:41:00.000-04:00

...... i told randy how i wanted g mosh and hes gonna try and hook a bother upppppp and him and kristyle were gonna meet up last night.... i wonder how that went!!! i just had an great night! i feel totally bad tho cuz kristyle didnt have that much fun and i love that girl to death and allllllll so the last night of the birthday partying was totally fun! i went to go see meg and dia @ the

Fraggle Rock and Aiden

2010-11-04T06:43:00.002-04:00

Looking back on things I loved when I was little, sometimes they aren’t as great as I thought they were. For instance Aiden is now into Fraggle Rock. A few years ago I bought the first season on DVD for the nursing home I worked for. I worked in the dementia unit and Fraggle Rock and it has adult concepts simplified. When I was younger I LOVED Fraggle Rock and I thought I’d still love it.

wordless humpday

2010-11-03T20:58:00.001-04:00

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2010-11-02T06:34:00.000-04:00

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Being from New Jersey means never having to say you're sorry

2010-11-01T09:20:00.000-04:00

Dear people not from New Jersey, I love to think what it’s like where any blogger I follow is from. I wonder if they live in a sprawling country landscape or a concrete jungle. I contemplate if where they’re from helps shape who they are. It is really an interesting thing to think about. I’d love to experience places that weren’t just out my front door, but I have an irrational fear of

music to dance to mondays: kill hannah - lips like morphine

2010-11-01T05:17:00.000-04:00

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

2010-10-31T04:56:00.000-04:00

Flash back fridays: Nov. 10th 2007, the 21st birthday part 1

2010-10-29T01:38:00.000-04:00

im 21 ive had the bestest bday ever! i mean like great amazing awesome and yeah! and i still have one more night of partying.... so wendsday i went to cloud 9 with ralph and got REAL drunk.... i think i kissed him :x i wore knee high boots and classy fishnets.... i looked damn hot thursday was my birthday.... i got a new camera so lots of pictures taken i went to snitch with nora it was so

wordless humpday: you tell me what's wrong with this?

2010-10-27T06:52:00.000-04:00

cameron: week 2

2010-10-26T13:34:00.000-04:00

The story of my mom

2010-10-26T08:28:00.002-04:00

Note: If you read my blog i have mentioned multiple times that mom was very ill before she passed away last year. It's taken me awhile to find the right way to tell her story, without getting into all the bad. anyway here's her story me with my mom in my shadow, how she spent the last 5 years of her life Not everyone grows old gracefully. They don’t get to spend their gold years

follow me back tues.

2010-10-26T04:45:00.000-04:00

Co-Sleeping, the 2nd time around

2010-10-25T09:10:00.001-04:00

When Aiden was born we did our own take on co-sleeping. You can read about that HERE. As for Aiden’s birth, nothing about Aiden’s upbringing was really planned. It was what worked for us. Aiden slept in our room after sleeping in his room for months. Which was what ended up working for us. Aiden just transitioned to his room the week before the baby was born. It didn’t work so well because he

music to dance to mondays The Academy Is - Classifieds

2010-10-25T07:24:00.002-04:00

please give to offbeat mama!

2010-10-23T11:32:00.000-04:00

even tho I'm really not that into offbeat mama anymore. i feel the need to share the website with all of you who don't know it and for the people who do know it (most of you have found me through there because i used to have a number of guest posts on the site) ANYWAY they need some support to keep going and i think it's an important site for moms! so even if it's $1 please donate and help them

Flash back fridays: tonight i will put my dancing shoes on!

2010-10-22T17:26:00.004-04:00

MAY I ALSO ADD today is my actual due date and i can fit into my skinny jeans, do you know how FxING awesome that is!

Aiden's new found abilities

2010-10-21T14:47:00.003-04:00

a Since the new baby has been well being talked about, I feel like I’ve over shadowed Aiden’s abilities. I haven’t talked much about Aiden’s achievements or the milestones he’s reached. There’s a number of reasons why I haven’t talked about them. One being that I was in the mindset that HEY Aiden can walk now, the only thing left is talking. I never thought he’d really achieve to much in the

Wordless hump day: aiden and cameron

2010-10-20T11:14:00.004-04:00

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2010-10-19T12:51:00.000-04:00

music to dance to mondays - ima robot - creeps me out

2010-10-18T02:42:00.001-04:00

Cameron: a birth story through pictures

2010-10-17T19:29:00.002-04:00

On tuesday the 12th i felt like crap when i first woke up. some how i knew it'd be the day. so i woke everyone up and planned out my day. i figured i spend tons and tons of time walking around then end up at the hospital. first i went to the mall then ikea. i even bought furniture before heading to the hospital. when i got to the hospital they hooked me up to all kinds of monitors. they took my

10/12/10 11:34 pm 8 lbs .09 oz 19 inches long

2010-10-14T08:31:00.001-04:00

Just before midnight on Tuesday Cameron made his appearance into this world. He cried like there was no tomorrow, but had some issues with breathing that have all cleared up. Yet that wasn't without a set of other complications. Cameron is now on the NICU rollercoaster. He has some stomach issues that have yet to be resolved. They are in the process of doing tons of x-rays and poor Cameron

to all my followers

2010-10-12T22:33:00.001-04:00

its baby time!!!

still no baby

2010-10-12T04:48:00.002-04:00

Let me start off this post with, NO BABY YET. See I haven’t been posting much in the last few days, and I actually got a comment on a post asking WAIT IS THE BABY HERE YET. I never figured anyone followed me would actually keep up to date if I popped yet. (even tho there are quite a few blogs I check someone obsessively to see if the baby has arrived) SO, no baby. The phone calls have

Blog Hop

2010-10-12T03:40:00.002-04:00

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music to dance to mondays - The Format - Dog Problems

2010-10-11T06:49:00.000-04:00

Crunchy is such a funny word

2010-10-10T03:36:00.000-04:00

More and more I see this word “Crunchy” come up on blogs. I had no clue what it meant. All I knew is that moms that appeared “punk rock” seamed to be using it a lot. I just thought it was a slang term I was just not up on. Apparently, it is a slang term I should be up on. I looked up the definition and I’ve pretty much summed it up to meaning someone who goes out of their way to change their

Cameron update #7 (hopfully the last one before he's here!)

2010-10-09T17:01:00.000-04:00

I figured that my last Cameron update would be the last one before he was born, and I was wrong. Thursday I went for my normal hated weekly appointment to my doctors. For once I was seen and done with the doctor before 10 am! Which was totally amazing, BUT I wasn’t done. I had to sit through a 3 hour sugar blood test. Which irked me, and the only reason why I partook in the medical

wordless hump day: dancing birds

2010-10-06T09:15:00.000-04:00

blog hop

2010-10-05T10:05:00.001-04:00

Different Worlds

2010-10-05T07:16:00.001-04:00

I sometimes forget that people in different areas are very just different. My fathers “friend” (because I just don’t know what else to call her at this rate) came up to the new house to help clean. This wasn’t the first time I met her or anything but first time I’ve seen her since right before I opened the coffee shop. She’s from Newark, NJ. Which has the rep of being a not so nice place,

Chris Christie, is an idiot

2010-10-04T11:05:00.004-04:00

I really don’t like to bring up politics and religion up on this blog. It prevents people from well being offended. (Yet I bring up breast feeding, which when it comes to parenting should go on that list). Today, though I have a serious need to talking about politics. Incase you didn’t know, I come from the great state of New Jersey, which is known for guidos, mafia, malls, smelling bad

music to dance to mondays - Midtown - Just Rock and Roll

2010-10-04T06:51:00.001-04:00

full term

2010-10-01T18:24:00.001-04:00

24 years, 1 month and 6 days ago it poured and rained just like it is today. Everything was flooded in northern New Jersey. Roads were in passable, kind of like today. That was the day before I was born, November 8th, 1986. 24 years ago to the day, a women who was due October 22nd celebrated that she had hit 37 weeks. She had 3 weeks to go, but the thought that she could go at any moment

Flash back fridays: so i USED to be really REALLY scene

2010-10-01T01:37:00.002-04:00

June 2002: I was actually there! The first time I was excited about music in years early 2009 The star of what’s to come: September 2010

wordless hump day

2010-09-29T07:51:00.003-04:00

sometimes i just want to scream NO

2010-09-28T07:50:00.002-04:00

Its funny how I can bitch to Alan about how I just want to say no to his mother. How all I want to do is scream it from the roof tops when she has a request I just don’t want to deal with. And yet I always get that Jewish guilt. Like a great example, the last time we were upstate, Alan’s mom went on and on about how she wants to be there when the baby is born. I couldn’t just bring myself to say

music to dance to mondays: the bravery - an honest mistake

2010-09-27T00:05:00.003-04:00

Cameron updated # 6

2010-09-24T06:03:00.003-04:00

Yet another doctors visit was more stressful then it need to be. I had an 8:30 appointment and got there at 8:40 and didn’t get checked in until 9:30. Then I was called right away to go have my vitals checked which was reassuring. But the another wait. I wasn’t taken back until 10:30 followed by sitting half naked on a table until 11:45! I actually got up and got changed and was about to

Flashback fridays: i used to wear makeup

2010-09-24T00:57:00.001-04:00

why i'm not freaking out over the similac recall

2010-09-23T16:37:00.001-04:00

As always I love to always go against whatever breast feeders have to say about certain things. I just think most pro-breast feeders get on this thing about how formula is the devil. Now with this similac recall there is one more thing I get to hear from the pro-breast feeders that constantly go after what I have to say. So here’s one for you. I plan on feeding my child who I am 36 weeks

thank god for LITTLE BOYS

2010-09-23T01:55:00.003-04:00

“Are you sad that you’re not having a girl”, someone asked me the other day. I told them no not really. They then replied “there’s nothing like having a girl, you’ll want one, one day.” To their dismay I don’t want a girl. (and this is going to be my last child) To be honest with you, besides that I could dress them in hot pink and tutus there’s nothing I could really relate to a little girl. I

Wordless hump day: i'm the wicked witch of north jersey

2010-09-22T00:55:00.000-04:00

what an awesome album to come out at the right time in my life!

2010-09-21T23:38:00.000-04:00

Don't touch my mallomars

2010-09-21T06:56:00.001-04:00

I grew up in a house where my father was a pig. There is no other way to put it. If it was in front of him he had to eat it all. If he was chopping something you had to prepare for munching. If you asked him to taste something like if something had gone bad, he’d have to have 3 large spoonfuls then make a dash to the bathroom to spit it out. So whenever I would buy something from the

Cameron (no longer untitled baby) Update #5

2010-09-20T06:45:00.001-04:00

Cameron has dropped. He has began to get ready for his big debut. Since he’d dropped I’ve had so much more energy. It’s kind of funny. I’m running around a little bit more, I’m defiantly cooking a hell of a lot more. The only thing that’s really killing me is running up and down the 2+ flights of stairs that make up our home. I can’t wait to move. I just don’t think the baby is going wait to come

Music to dace to Mondays: She Wants Revenge - Tear You Apart

2010-09-20T00:46:00.000-04:00

Cameron (no longer untitled baby) Update

2010-09-18T00:52:00.000-04:00

Around 6 Friday I got a call from my doctors office that I needed to pick up a prescription. I thought what prescription. It is apparently for a 3 hour blood glucose test. I (not officially yet) may have gestational diabetes. My doctor didn’t think I was a huge deal for me to wait to take this test. Which I took almost 2 weeks ago. She thought well you’re young, there’s no family history and you

Flashback fridays: Sep. 10th, 2006

2010-09-17T21:13:00.000-04:00

ive been hiding from life for the last week or so.... i havent done too much cuz i've been sick and i've let myself fall again....madison broke up which made me relize that my young teenage years are over.... some of my favorite memories i have of all the people from high school i miss but i'm glad i dont see anymore was going to shows where madison usually played.... i went to their last show...

the missing UFO segment from Fox News

2010-09-16T13:06:00.002-04:00

I don’t’ know how many of you out there are believers of UFOs. I know may of you are very religious and I KNOW the Vatican’s stand on UFOs. (They are currently investigating with a team of scientist) So it’s not really a question of if you’re religious, you can’t believe in UFOs so forget that. Anyway. I’m a huge believer of UFOs. I saw something when I was younger and ever since I’m sure

The pros and cons to knowing that there's a new one on it's way (this time around)

2010-09-16T03:18:00.003-04:00

I’ve been thinking about how I felt last summer, being pregnant with Aiden then this summer being pregnant with Cameron. I sometime I didn’t know this time either. I get so scared wondering what’s going on with him on the inside. How if something happens I can’t fix him nor know really. Unlike Aiden, if he’s sick I can do something about it. It kind of scares me. But there are plenty of pros

Wordless hump day

2010-09-15T09:26:00.000-04:00

music to dance to mondays

2010-09-13T00:59:00.000-04:00

Cameron (no longer untitled baby) Update

2010-09-11T08:16:00.002-04:00

This past Wednesday I went for what mostly likely will be my last ultrasound before Cameron gets here. It was nice to see him floating around. He was opening and closing his mouth and being all cute. At prior ultrasounds I never really thought of it being cute or anything, but this time I did. I saw his little hands and feet. My eyes actually got a little misty. Which I am sure was just

flashback fridays: February 11th, 2008

2010-09-10T06:47:00.002-04:00

wordless hump day: in the 25 years i've been going to maine i've never seen a moose

2010-09-08T08:08:00.000-04:00

The rotary phone

2010-09-07T01:57:00.000-04:00

For my son’s first birthday he got tons and tons of toys. He actually got one toy that I really wanted to get him. It was one of those fisher price toy rotary phones. I had one when I was younger and LOVED it. I thought it was awesome when I was little because I could pretend to be an adult. I figured my son would take to it like I did since he loves phones. See, my son has an

Pro-breast feeders really NEED to quit it

2010-09-06T17:36:00.000-04:00

Once again I am disgusted with how some mothers who breast feed treat other mothers who can’t breast feed. There was yet another post (what to do when breast feeding just doesn't work) on offbeat mama.com about breast feeding. (I get the beast is best thing, but I really wish they’d post something about a child who is just formula fed, BUT that’s another story.) I really didn’t look at it

Happy labor day!

2010-09-06T07:40:00.002-04:00

Yesterday we headed over to BBQ to see the family and boy was it a party. Where before kids there was just a few people there, after children it’s a huge party. My aunt and uncle’s summer BBQs defiantly have double in size. They are back to the size that they were when my cousins and I were little. It’s nice to see the family getting together again. For years after my mother had gotten sick

music to dance to mondays

2010-09-06T03:50:00.001-04:00

Flashback Fridays: May 10th, 2008 (alan and i's first date)

2010-09-03T06:05:00.001-04:00

"And I owe it to myself" it was pouring yesterday all day and all night yet i still went into the city to meet up with alan.... why you may ask, well its simple it was to see if i maybe could finally find a decent guy and this morning i woke up in like so we walked around in the rain and got soaked.... like my feet were swimming in my shoes :( we went and got pinkbery which was fucking radddd!

(the lack of) Getting ready for the new one

2010-09-02T05:50:00.003-04:00

Lately I’ve been feeling very very very guilty. I haven’t really been getting ready for the birth of the new monster. See I’m moving in just a few short weeks so I’m not going to unpack everything into Aiden’s room, (which by the way he refuses to use currently.) to repack it even before the baby arrives. But that’s not why I’m really guilty. It’s that I’m getting ready for this baby at all

the post baby body myth

2010-09-01T13:21:00.000-04:00

Since I’m really no longer a fan of offbeat mama anymore, I don’t check it out as much as I well used to. Yet something the other morning made me say hey let me check out the site and see if anything interesting has gone up. I came across this awesome post called “The myth of the pre-baby body”. See I really believe in this. I think people need to get used to their post baby bodies. A lot of

wordless hump day:

2010-09-01T06:12:00.000-04:00

I realize reading a blog with all text and no pictures can be very hard on the eyes. so since i FORGOT (more like dealt with crazy child yesterday) i'll post pictures today and no one is going to say anything about because if you have a kid like this: you undestand he can't always be an angel and let you upload pictures unless it's when you wake up too early. but sometime he can be mellow AND

Aiden's first birthday party(s)

2010-08-30T08:54:00.000-04:00

This weekend really got to me. It didn’t get to me because I am as big as a house or anything like that. This weekend got to me because people didn’t understand to help me reduce my stress level. People made a point to make things about them and not my children, which is what things should be about. See for a few months now we’ve been going back and forth about have a birthday party for

music to dance to mondays

2010-08-30T01:23:00.003-04:00

sfrom now on, on mondays i'm going to post an MP3 or a video of a song you should check out, because well i'm way too into music and i love sharing my musical interests with others. there's also a good chance you've never heard of the band/song so maybe someone will find something they like.

Flashback friday 9/12/2005

2010-08-27T08:06:00.000-04:00

SO i've decided since i'm kind of despressed about being too tired to do anything cool this summer, and not being able to wear awesome clothes i'm going to start posting a blog post from my former more intersting life so come november i can just kick start the fun. my first post baby party in the new house has already started to be planned nov.6th we'll be getting mad shitty for my 24th birthday

untitled baby update/ THE STATE OF OUR HEALTH CARE SYSTEM

2010-08-26T16:54:00.003-04:00

Today, yet again I spent most of my day sitting around a doctors office. I spent from 8 am to 11 am waiting to see the doctor. While waiting I got asked by a nurse why I was there. I told her that the doctor told me I was an every weeker (since I am now @ 32 weeks with a number of complications). The nurse looked weird and said yeah we did draw a lot of blood last week. I spent 3 hours

Wordless hump day: what i wake up to every morning

2010-08-25T05:49:00.000-04:00